Sunday, March 30, 2008

Getting Attached With Your Daughter

Having a hard time spending moments with your daughter? Tired of diverting your daughter’s attention from friends, televisions, cell phones etc.? Planning for new ideas on how to keep in touch and breaking through the teenage barrier? Well, there is a great idea.

Redecorate her whole room. You don't have enough time or money? It is not the issue. All you have to do is to focus in one small area that could get her interest. The best area is the closet. The closet is a unique place to start and is sure to get her attention. Closet make over is just a small project though it is not likely compared as a full-on room reconstruction. Working together with your daughter, sharing different ideas to come up with fun impressions will be a brilliant strategy to be with them. The distance between two individual is communication. Therefore, exchanging thoughts so often wind up with teenagers.

In dealing with stubborn and a little bit “spoiled brat” daughters, try to think of giving her something that would unleash her creativity and boost her imaginations. For an example, Glamorous hanger with beads that also has a variety of stylishness designs and with different texture and colors. The more styles and colors the more creativenesses she will make. With these type of accessorizing helps her express her originality, able to create unique designs, and improve her inventiveness. With these, we might able to encourage her set or organize her own closet by dissecting them with creativity.

Now after the foremost decorating of the closet, try to add and put more innovation or creative idea to help you have fun and making bonds to your daughter while doing this project. Let your daughter choose her own style, try to go shopping with her and be more suggestive on what she chooses. Select a wacky paint colors and come up with schemes that match her style as she decorates it in her way. Beautifying and decorating a corresponding switch plate for her closet light is also can add fun and motivates your daughter on her little side project.

As she already finished putting up her room, be virtuosic and get inspired. Let her spirit be raised up or encourage her to add displays like photos and artworks, letters or other memorabilia, inside or outside the closet door. It is also one way to expose or open up something to you what things else are needed and it is also to find out a little way of her imaginative life.

Get her attention by letting asking her questions why certain items are essential or important to her. While she is giving her opinion, she might give you a clue or an idea in having a closet theme. Maintain the closeness between you and your daughter by not only supporting but also being a non-judgmental mother.

Bargain productive criticism that will lead her to be more inventive, but be careful that it will not lead to any arguments. Her idea must be the one to be displayed unless you shared the same views. And when you feel that she doesn’t want to finish the project, bribe her with a special sleep-over. Sometime these things happen, but only for time to time.

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